Monday, August 26, 2013

TIP OF THE WEEK: GOLD OR SILVER?


Up until very recently mixing metals when accesorizing had been a major fashion faux pas. I really don't play by the rules, so as you might well know by now I'll just pile them all on. However, it now seems there are certain criteria that can help you decide which metals to wear, besides your mood when getting dressed that particular morning. I love how finally it now seems all fashion rules are shifting, white after labor day anyone? Sure, why not?! Gold and silver, on the same wrist? bring it on!

I've gone through everything. I've had my silver, platinum and white gold moments. I went through a  brief stint of rose gold, and have recently gone through a major gold moment that lasted a couple of years. Today, I'm open to mix'em up and switch 'em every other day.

This dilemma has haunted women for years, so I recently decided to make my very own little research on the subject. Here's the scoop of what I found:

1. Determine your skin type and accessorize accordingly.

How do I do this? Easy peasy, you ready? I thought this one was so cool: Do you know that really thin skin around your wrist that will let you see through to your veins? Well, if your veins are bluish your skin type is Cool. If your veins are on the greenish side your skin type is Warm.
White gold, platinum and silver tones favor cool skin types. While gold, brass, copper and pewter favor warm skin types. Same goes for stones. Diamonds favor cool skin types, while pearls favor warm skin types. See, it was easy.

2. Silver tone jewelry will look more appropriate when worn in colder climates and seasons. Think of the first color that comes to mind when you think of a snowy cold winter? White pops right into my head. Same way as yellow and orange jump to my mind when I picture a warm summer evening by the ocean, therefore gold tone jeweley will look more appropriate when worn in warmer latitudes and seasons. I came up with an exception for this rule: Holidays. Everyone should wear gold on christmas!

3. And for the final and most important finding, please pardon my french:

Screw the rules and wear whatever the hell you like and 
how you like it!

Whether it's shoes, belts, jewelry, bags, whole outfits or makeup for that matter, wear what you feel beautiful and comfortable in, and just please mix up those gold and silver bangles once and for all!!!

Faithful to my If you can't decide get them both! philosophy, I can occasionally squeeze in small splurges like these Agatha Paris teardrop necklaces and Brandy Melville Pyramid ones which I got in both gold and silver. Of course, these babies below, are another story...

Cartier's Love Bracelet
 These Cartier Classics will look gorgeous, dress up any outfit and adorn any wrist on their own or stacked no matter what their colour or metal.

Cartier's Juste un Clou Collection


To end this Tip of the Week, this tumblr image sums up pretty much whatever little fashion instincts I have:

Photo via tumblr
XO

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Endless Summer: New Additions to the OfiBella Family!

Do you rememeber that famous creepy line in Poltergeist when the little girl announces ''They're here...''. That's the exact same voice I hear everytime OfiBella introduces new additions to their already gorgeous collection and talented designers. Part of me is pure excitement and the other is plain old fear I'll want them all and will in fact end up buying them all. Shopaholics of the world: this is not the blog for you to be reading! I will only encourage your vice, and this is exactly what OfiBella is, my very own vice, my addiction; my confessed guilty pleasure. 

The first day of my daughter's pre-school I decided I should treat myself with a little something and spend a very small portion of her college fund...on me. Hey, I made it through the first four years, I need a little encouragement gift for the next fifteen! So I decide to stop by OfiBella, and I know I'm in trouble when the sales assistant greets me by name and says she was expecting me. I'm that predictable. I then confirm I'm a lost case once I spot the newest addition to the OfiBella family: Margaret Elizabeth. Meg Galligan is the brilliant designer behind this beautifully crafted jewelry line. In her own words she believes that every day calls for a celebration. I think I might have taken this a bit too literal...

I immediately spotted her faceted stone adjustable bangles. I spy a Gold Link bracelet that has my name written all over it, a gorgeous Chrysophase teardrop bangle and the aqua chalcedony one. A few minutes (that feel like hours) of indecision later, I'm ultimately drawn to the Rainbow Moonstone Teardrop Bangle, and the Labradorite Teardrop Bangle and go for these babies. 


Of course I don't leave with these two beauties on their own. I finally got my hands on the Hula Hoops Maui Molly Bar necklace which I've been lusting after a while now, as well as the 19" Spike Necklace also by Hula Hoops Maui, both perfect for layering! (I already own the 29" Spike necklace, a simple, edgy, versatile piece perfect for layering as well), and just to make sure these two don't feel lonely back home I go for the mini Claw necklace (which I totally think should be joined by the mini claw studs...soon, very soon...)

Just before I think I'm safe, I spot Tiffany Chou's Coral Jr. which I can't, just can't not have. I already own Tiffany's gorgeous My Fair Coral Cuff and have gotten so many compliments on it whenever I wear it, the Jr. version will surely be a head-turning stunner as well.


Hula Hoops Maui Molly Necklace


Amethyst Druzzy Pendant, by Margaret Elizabeth

This picture does not make justice to the Knotted Turquoise Necklace with Druzy Pendant, by Santa Monica based celeb fave Frasier Sterling pictured in the back. It is jaw-dropping stunning! Everything Frasier Sterling is. Period. Proof of this are these distressed wood stretchies with multicolor tassels featured below. How cute are these?!

Talking about conversation starters and head turners, this Gold Vermeil Eagle Cuff by Hula Hoops Maui is insane!!! How cool is it?!!!

This is my idea of heaven in a four-picture InstaCollage. Check out those Zariin A Touch of Stones necklaces and Tale of Two Stones rings. 
These dainty Tiffany Chou classics are back and in stock! Stay Gold, Anchors Aweigh and Sail Away necklaces. 

SNEAK PEEK: 

MEREDITH HAHN COMING SOON TO OFIBELLA!!!

Oh boy...

As summer comes to an end, I must confess I'm excited about fall launches and trends, september mag issues, and dressing up for fall; but the tropics girl in me is happy and lucky enough to live in an endless summer. OfiBella will sure brighten up my rainy days to come! Can't wait for the new additions to this gorgeous talented family of designers!!!


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XO

Monday, August 12, 2013

SAY YES!!!

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This isn't my usual kind of post, but I should warn you, I will definitely be doing these more often!
Say Yes and you'll figure it out afterwards, I wish I could credit this beautiful image, I know I sure can credit the quote, none other than the very great Tina Fey. I pinned this the other day, and for one reason or another it just stuck with me. In the past few months a number of great opportunities have presented themselves to my door. Opportunities to do fun things I love, for myself. One after the other, I kept saying Yes!, without a clue of what I was doing or getting myself into. This series of events got me thinking about the past few years of my life...

Until recently, I thought I had done nothing to deserve anything good that happened to me, and in that thought laid everything that has been wrong with my life up until this moment. I realized I've been in a place of No for too long. I had my heart filled with resentment and pride. I was making it through each day, but I wasn't really making the best out of it, or myself for that matter. Mostly because I was filled with negative thoughts and feelings, about myself, my body, my family, my career, my marriage, motherhood, my life in general. I had a few serious health scares, including the scariest of them all: the Big C; and even those didn't bring me out of this dark place of No. On the very contrary, I was convinced I deserved them.

A few months ago I had that AHA moment. I wish I could make it all Hollywood for you but it just wasn't the case. I didn't hear any voices (well maybe I did but I think that was the wine again...), it wasn't a divine revelation of some sort, I didn't go all Julia Roberts in EAT.PRAY.LOVE for a year, I was just in a really good place and really good things were happening to me (in fact I had been for quite a while now and just wasn't willing to accept it), and one day it crossed my mind that maybe, just maybe, I actually deserved them.

Today, I'm probably in the same place I was three years ago. I have the same loving husband, the same loving wonderful kid, the same supportive sisters, the very same mother and father who helped me become who I am today, the same home, I'm healthy, I'm full of life and love, the only difference is today I'm sure I deserve it all. I'm a good person. At least I try to be most of the time. I am a firm believer life hands you back exactly what you give, and for too long I had been holding back. The moment I realized I was capable of giving light and love, my days, and everything I did and received, were filled with them multiplied in ways I never even thought possible.

A couple of weeks ago one of my best friends invited me as partner to buy an art gallery. I know nothing about art, except that I like it, at least most of it. At the time, I had no budget for this business, I still don't have a clue about running an art gallery or dealing art, but I said Yes! Today we are the proud and very much broke owners of an art gallery, and every morning I wake up with someplace to be, something to do and love...somehow, now it's just easier for me to get up every morning!

I'm involved in a great cause with wonderful people to fight a terrible disease. I am writing, a lot. In fact, all I do is write, I don't know if I'm any good at it but it's a great way to channel my thoughts, feelings and energy. I've retaken my life dream of writing a book and have now landed on some ideas.  I'm addicted to this site you should totally check out www.sensophy.com . I'm painting, mostly for my brown eyes only, but hey you never know, maybe one day ... 

I can't even pretend to be a life coach or sit here and write about how to live your life in that happy place... God knows I need a life coach myself! but I can assure you that if you let go of past fears and hurts, embrace who you are, let go of who you aren't, thank constantly, love unconditionally and forgive eternally, not only good things, but GREAT things will come knocking at your door!

I think by now you've all guessed where this is going: I said Yes! to life, and life said Yes! right back!

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Thursday, August 8, 2013

Fall Launches You'll Love: Club Monaco Footwear 2013


Loeffler Randall Nahla Bootie

Don't get me wrong, I am a Summer kinda girl all year round, but Oh! how I love Fall Fashion. I live in the tropics, but I usually get excited around this time of the year with all the new beauty and fashion fall launches. I'll breeze through september mag issues wishing for a few inches of snow just so I can wear a pair of studded biker boots without looking ridiculous! A girl can dream...then I wake up and really do thank I live in the tropics!!!

My latest shoe obsession: Club Monaco's fall 2013 first-ever footwear launch, now available online and in stores! From luxurious pumps and edgy booties to comfy classy flats or sexy slim sandals, these timeless, bold, versatile, Italian crafted beauties will take you from day to night and summer to fall in less than you can say ''I'll take one of each!''.

Take a sneak peek and breathe girl, breathe...






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Thursday, August 1, 2013

BEAUTY SPECIAL: THE MAKEUP PART


I'm a makeup junkie. There I said it. BBs, mascara, lipsticks, eyeliners, you name it and I'll own at least three or ten of each. I'm also a sucker for trying new products and brands. Someone has to keep the economy going these days, really it's a service...

As much as I tried the french 'le no-makeup' look and loved to see it on french women, it just isn't me. Just as I usually over accesorize you will never (ever) see me without makeup. I'm not even sure I've got it right, but without it I just feel...naked. Specially after my pregnancy, I used to have the perfect complexion, beautiful, youthful, fresh looking skin, (Oh didn't we all...) now it's just...blah...I went from normal skin to oily in less than you can say 'one four-year old later'. Not to mention not even when I was 15 and hormones are doing atrocities to your skin, had I ever heard the word acne or concealer. Now, one is my best friend and the other is my worst enemy, guess which b*tch is which???

A few unforgettable faux pas and many hundred...or thousands of dollars later, I think I'm starting to get the hang of it, part of it at least (damn you cat eye...)

In a market in which every week the same beauty products company will launch three different mascaras (cannibalization, anyone?) each promising beautiful, longer, thicker eyelashes, it can be tough finding your perfect match and sticking to it. Once you do find it, I suggest you hoard on it.

Much like my previous post, the following are my makeup faves, for easy recognition next time you hit your local beauty supply I've skipped all the text and thrown in the images (see, another service...)

My Daily Makeup Routine (yes, I do this everyday!)


1. I can't emphasize enough on the importance of this first step: Moisturizer.
2. Primer
3. Lightweight Foundation or BB
4. Concealer
5. Loose Powder
6. Blush, Bronzer & highlighter
7. Eye Shadow, Eyeliner & Mascara
8. Lipliner and Lipstick


That's a lot of layers!!! Trick lays in applying them in the correct order and letting them dry between applications to avoid ending up with a cakey face.

With all this BBs, CCs, DDs and double letters craze, I'm still trying to figure out the difference between my regular moisturizer, tinted moisturizer, foundation, primer, beauty balm, etc. (eventhough BBs promise to prime, perfect, correct, and moisturize, among many other miracles, I still won't skip my regular moisturizer). So instead of piling them one after another one, it'll usually depend on the kind of day I'm having. If I'm late or in a rush I'll usually apply tinted moisturizer or a BB. If I'm getting ready for a long night out, I'll take my time to prime, conceal with my Clinique All About Eyes Concealer in 01 Light Neutral, and apply my regular Clinique Even Better in Ivory 03 foundation.

The First Choice was quite easy. Smashbox's Photo Finish works wonders. Period. Try the SPF version.

For a glowing look after a long night out, try Laura Mercier's foundation primer radiance.



On the subject of BBs, I'm not exaggerating when I say I've tried at least half a dozen brands. Dr. Jart, Bobbi, Dior, Garnier, Smashbox, and L'Oréal (I'm forgetting a couple) and finally found the best one for my newly acquired skin type. Luckily for my pocket it was one of the cheapest, but the results were unbelievable. Maybelline's Dream Pure BB is my BaBy (get it?)


There are two products featured on this post I've been using since 2001. Clinique's Loose Powder Transparency 03 is one of them. I'm still reluctant to go mineral on this one.
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Goodbye blush! Hello bronzers, cream blush and highlighters!


I will usually keep all of the above in stock. Bobbi Brown's Shimmer Bricks are dazzling, but my recent fave without a doubt is Urban Decay's NAKED Flushed, bronzer, highlighter and blush (this last one, I'll apply only on the apples of my cheeks, contrary to my daughters advice of rubbing my entire face with it) all three in one beautiful versatile palette.

Oh how I love going Naked!!! Nothing, I mean NOTHING, beats my Urban Decay Naked and Naked 2 Palettes (this second one being my fave!) The colors are Oh! so gorgeous! Trust me this palette is all you'll ever have to buy when it comes to eye shadows! Foxy, Chopper, YDK and Busted are some of the beautiful shades, with the right amount of shimmer. Half baked and Tease are great for an everyday look. Verve is perfect for highlighting your brow bone and blackout is ideal for eye lining and working your smokey eye. I suggest you search on Pinterest easy step by step tutorials on how and where to apply each shade to make the best out of this baby. The brush is also amazing. For traveling or on-the- go retouching get your hands on the Basics smaller palette but ever so beautiful as the bigger one.

I'm still torn when it comes to mascara. What can I say of Chanel's Inimitable, the name pretty much sums it all up! But I must admit lately I've been tempted by Diorshow's Blackout and Benefit's They're Real, so as usual my best advice would be, when in doubt...pile them all on!


I will literally buy 3 of these at a time and use each one up in less than a month. I am addicted to Benefit's BADgal liner. Just bare the following word in mind when purchasing mascara and eyeliner: WATERPROOF.
The second product on this post I've been using since 2001 is my Sephora Lipgloss 20. It gives you just the right amount of shine and color, doesn't taste funny and will last for hours. I'm always freaking out they'll discontinue it so I keep re-stocking (hoar-der!).



Whenever I'm feeling bolder and daring and want to flaunt my come hither pout I go for MAC's Ruby WOO. I've been through my Russian Red and Viva Glam I phase, but for now, whoever Ruby is, she's my gurl!



Last but not least, invest in a good set of brushes. Sephora carries a wide variety of their own brand but suggests five essentials to get you started: liner brush, shadow, blush, foundation and concealer brush and powder brush. Though I now realize the importance of applying the right product with the correct brush I confess I can't give up on my sponges, my fave both for blending and foundation are Sonia Kashuk (Target).
To avoid breakouts  remember to clean your brushes periodically. I usually do it once every 3-4 weeks. However, I should probably be doing it as much as once a week. If you can't get your hands on one of the cleansing products recommended below, try Johnson's Baby Shampoo, and log on to YouTube or Pinterest to search for tutorials in brush cleansing. 


I couldn't end this post with my regular book rec, so if this post was no help, let the experts talk: ladies meet the makeup bible by none other that the makeup guru and one of my personal faves: Bobbi Brown. 



If you allow me one final observation, I Just wanted to make clear, none of the products and brands I promote on this post or any post for that matter on LADV pay me to do so. I endorse these products by personal choice and experience, and only because I have used them, trust them, love them and swear by them! 

Drop a line or two to let me know about your personal beauty & makeup faves!!!

XO!